It is almost cliche to say don't make any big decisions during the first year. Sometimes this may not be possible. You may have to take a job or may have to move for financial or other reasons. If this is the case, do what you need to do.
If a decision does not have to be made right away, then my suggestion would be to postpone making it until you feel capable of doing so with a clear thought process. In many cases this make take a year or even longer. At the time of this writing, I am only 9 months into this myself, so I cannot really answer that adequately right now. It seemed by 9 months things would get better and easier... the same length of time to grow a baby, right? There will be more on this in a later post.
I was recently faced with a rather large decision. As always, I can only share my experience.. .and hope that others will also in the comments. I found myself changing my mind from the morning to the evening and doing the same thing the next day. Fortunately, I do not have to make this decision today. This drove home the point to me, of why people tell you to wait.
One day at a time!
Penelope
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