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Saturday, September 15, 2012

Death Certificates

At the time of this post, I have experience in Florida, Maryland, Washington, DC  and Pennsylvania.  My feeling is that this is consistent across the states, but I do not know that for sure.  Generally the funeral home helps with the death certificates.  You tell them how many you need and they get them for you initially.  If more copies are needed later on, one gets them through the Department of Health or Vital Statistics in your state.

The advice I was given, was good advice... get more than you think you will need.  Many institutions require the original certificate with a raised seal.  

I began including a self addressed stamped envelope with a note asking to return the certificate if they did not need to keep the original and got 2 back that way.  

Some of the places that will require a death certificate are listed below:

  • Life insurance policy (or policies)
  • Pension, IRA or other benefits
  • Social Security
  • Union or other benefits
  • Accounts at banks or credit unions
  • Stocks and bonds
  • Titles and deeds to property
  • Vehicle registration and title transfer
  • Attorneys and CPA's
  • Home mortgage
  • Other insurance (home, auto)
  • Credit cards and other accounts 
  • Keep an original certified copy for your own records (and children may also need them at some point.)
This list is not meant to be all inclusive.  Please feel free to list additional suggestions in the comments below. 


Over time I would like to list in the comments section all 50 states and feel free to list information for other countries as well.   Please enter the STATE NAME in ALL CAPITAL LETTERS first, to make it easy to find.  Follow this with any information and links, especially to the state departments of health or vital statistics.

One day at a time,
Penelope

2 comments:

Penelope said...

PENNSYLVANIA -
State Department of Health
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/community/death_certificates/

Penelope said...

WASHINGTON, DC -
Department of Health/Vital Records
http://doh.dc.gov/node/118872